“Being A Single”
I grew a lot when we broke up with my boyfriend but it hurt and also it was day of liberation for me and for him. Yes, it’s not easy to move on, but you need to go on with your life without him. As a single again your world couldn’t become very small. Your time is not taken up by only one person. Instead of learning new skills, expanding your territories, making study habit and serving of God your attention will be on maintaining this one relationship with the petty fights, little arguments, silly jealousies and one- hour phone conversations every day. You miss out on great experiences to mature as a whole person. If you’re not going to date and have a boyfriend , what else should I do? Of course enjoy the single life !
I’ m not laying it down as a doctrine but as a wonderful suggestion to those who want to escape all the complexities of having a relationship. One more thing you can get to know lots and lots of people . That’s better than getting bogged down to one particular guy or gal. And in these natural situations, you actually get to know the “ real “ person more than in a romantic date. And perhaps, you’ll meet your One True Love among your many friends.
Sunday, July 18, 2010
Being A Single
'Being A Single'
I grew a lot when we broke up with my boyfriend but it hurt and also it was day of liberation for me and for him. Yes, it’s not easy to move on, but you need to go on with your life without him. As a single again your world couldn’t become very small. Your time is not taken up by only one person. Instead of learning new skills, expanding your territories, making study habit and serving of God your attention will be on maintaining this one relationship with the petty fights, little arguments, silly jealousies and one- hour phone conversations every day. You miss out on great experiences to mature as a whole person. If you’re not going to date and have a boyfriend , what else should I do? Of course enjoy the single life !
I’ m not laying it down as a doctrine but as a wonderful suggestion to those who want to escape all the complexities of having a relationship. One more thing you can get to know lots and lots of people . That’s better than getting bogged down to one particular guy or gal. And in these natural situations, you actually get to know the “ real “ person more than in a romantic date. And perhaps, you’ll meet your One True Love among your many friends.
I grew a lot when we broke up with my boyfriend but it hurt and also it was day of liberation for me and for him. Yes, it’s not easy to move on, but you need to go on with your life without him. As a single again your world couldn’t become very small. Your time is not taken up by only one person. Instead of learning new skills, expanding your territories, making study habit and serving of God your attention will be on maintaining this one relationship with the petty fights, little arguments, silly jealousies and one- hour phone conversations every day. You miss out on great experiences to mature as a whole person. If you’re not going to date and have a boyfriend , what else should I do? Of course enjoy the single life !
I’ m not laying it down as a doctrine but as a wonderful suggestion to those who want to escape all the complexities of having a relationship. One more thing you can get to know lots and lots of people . That’s better than getting bogged down to one particular guy or gal. And in these natural situations, you actually get to know the “ real “ person more than in a romantic date. And perhaps, you’ll meet your One True Love among your many friends.
Sunday, July 11, 2010
“Punishment”
“ It’ s always better to accept the fact you are not appreciated than to insist yourself to someone who never sees your worth “.
Love, what is the meaning of this? For me, love is complicated because based on my experienced I had blamed myself because I was madly in love with a guy who doesn’t deserved my love for him. I was so wrong because I’d wasted a lot of time for loving him . My life become miserable I was so depressed and cried all the day when we are broke up and thinking how can I moved on. God punished me for being a bad person when I had a boyfriend especially in my study, I got a low grades and I’ m no longer scholar and even my family hated me. Sometimes I’ll asked myself, why I made those terrible mistakes.
My heart suffered a lot, I was physically and emotionally maltreated lately even now I don’t know who I am, maybe this is the first time when I had a boyfriend and I was so desperate when my boyfriend left me . Those all memories that I would like to forget but still it made me firmer. And I couldn’t help but smile while reminiscing about the adversities I had been through. Time flew by as I did everything to survived, sometimes I could no longer believed how I really overcome those obstacles I had suffered.
Now, I’ll think of the things and try to make some plans to get back my old life. And now I have more strength to face all obstacle because I know that I have my true friends to lean on, my family who were always there at my side to help me and most especially God who create this world. I believe in sayings that “we should not lose our faith because God has plans to make our life better than we expected” for you to be happy we should know our desires and make a way to achieve it because if you know how to die you know how to live. And I believed that mistakes that you’ve done in the past will be your guide to make things right in the future. And even though you give your best but without faith in God will be useless.
Pray every day to strengthen your spirituality and it will give you more liveliness to live your life and have courage to fight for another days that will come.
Love, what is the meaning of this? For me, love is complicated because based on my experienced I had blamed myself because I was madly in love with a guy who doesn’t deserved my love for him. I was so wrong because I’d wasted a lot of time for loving him . My life become miserable I was so depressed and cried all the day when we are broke up and thinking how can I moved on. God punished me for being a bad person when I had a boyfriend especially in my study, I got a low grades and I’ m no longer scholar and even my family hated me. Sometimes I’ll asked myself, why I made those terrible mistakes.
My heart suffered a lot, I was physically and emotionally maltreated lately even now I don’t know who I am, maybe this is the first time when I had a boyfriend and I was so desperate when my boyfriend left me . Those all memories that I would like to forget but still it made me firmer. And I couldn’t help but smile while reminiscing about the adversities I had been through. Time flew by as I did everything to survived, sometimes I could no longer believed how I really overcome those obstacles I had suffered.
Now, I’ll think of the things and try to make some plans to get back my old life. And now I have more strength to face all obstacle because I know that I have my true friends to lean on, my family who were always there at my side to help me and most especially God who create this world. I believe in sayings that “we should not lose our faith because God has plans to make our life better than we expected” for you to be happy we should know our desires and make a way to achieve it because if you know how to die you know how to live. And I believed that mistakes that you’ve done in the past will be your guide to make things right in the future. And even though you give your best but without faith in God will be useless.
Pray every day to strengthen your spirituality and it will give you more liveliness to live your life and have courage to fight for another days that will come.
“A fresh start”
First time here in Manila, it’ s so hard for me because I come from province of Mindoro and my parents decided to studied me here for college. A lot of you may all the feeling butterflies in your stomachs just by hearing that is the first day of classes, right? I had the same notion when I got first into college. Everything was a new. Everyone was back to square one. But it didn’t really come easy for me. I had neither friends nor acquaintances, to start with. I had a trouble getting into school because I didn’t know where I should ask the jeep to stop. I had no idea where my room was. It was practically a terrible start. On top of that, I somehow felt out of place because I went to a public high school in our province and that most of the students I encountered during my first days here were from private high schools.
It was hard at first. During the first few days, I was practically asking myself why I was in Fatima. Of course I had no doubts as to the quality of education the university has to offer. But bearing the students status and situations, it made me think how fortune I am and how I kind of do “not belong “ to the group. In addition, the OLFU was not really what I expected. The quality of education has to offer is more than the glint and glimmer of its facilities. Whatever Fatima has to offer happens not only inside the classroom, but also out of it
Freshman years in the university are a crucial stage. Not only because you’re back to square one, but because you are trying the novel waters. Try to fit in and find peers who would actually accept you. This is the very foundation of college life.
It was hard at first. During the first few days, I was practically asking myself why I was in Fatima. Of course I had no doubts as to the quality of education the university has to offer. But bearing the students status and situations, it made me think how fortune I am and how I kind of do “not belong “ to the group. In addition, the OLFU was not really what I expected. The quality of education has to offer is more than the glint and glimmer of its facilities. Whatever Fatima has to offer happens not only inside the classroom, but also out of it
Freshman years in the university are a crucial stage. Not only because you’re back to square one, but because you are trying the novel waters. Try to fit in and find peers who would actually accept you. This is the very foundation of college life.
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