Being A Single

“Being A Single”

I grew a lot when we broke up with my boyfriend but it hurt and also it was day of liberation for me and for him. Yes, it’s not easy to move on, but you need to go on with your life without him. As a single again your world couldn’t become very small. Your time is not taken up by only one person. Instead of learning new skills, expanding your territories, making study habit and serving of God your attention will be on maintaining this one relationship with the petty fights, little arguments, silly jealousies and one- hour phone conversations every day. You miss out on great experiences to mature as a whole person. If you’re not going to date and have a boyfriend , what else should I do? Of course enjoy the single life !
I’ m not laying it down as a doctrine but as a wonderful suggestion to those who want to escape all the complexities of having a relationship. One more thing you can get to know lots and lots of people . That’s better than getting bogged down to one particular guy or gal. And in these natural situations, you actually get to know the “ real “ person more than in a romantic date. And perhaps, you’ll meet your One True Love among your many friends.